I am a 43 year old woman, I still have my periods and no hot flushes yet. My problem is my very, very high libido.

This can happen to a number of women. The way your hormonal balance is changing can trigger a rise in libido; also for some women the menopause stops the fear of getting pregnant which can make a lot of difference as well. You may find that it changes again as your oestrogen levels fall, but there is no way of telling how it will affect any individual. A herb such as Siberian Ginseng may help if you want to damp things down, as it is very balancing for the hormones - but there is no actual guarantee that it will work this way for you.
 
 Eileen  Durward