Am I menopausal?

It can be confusing when you start getting menopausal symptoms as there are often other possible explanations for those indications

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Is it the menopause? - Some questions to consider


  • How old are you? The average age for entering the menopause is 52, but many women start noticing some symptoms such as disturbances to their previously regular menstrual cycle in their mid to late 40s, and others don’t notice anything until later in their 50s. Occasionally symptoms start in the early 40s, but this is unusual and it is worth considering other explanations for symptoms experienced at that age
  • Has your cycle changed? At the start of the menopause some women find their periods coming more often, and sometimes more heavily, than previously. Other women will find their periods coming less frequently or being lighter than before. Sometimes the cycle becomes erratic, with no pattern emerging. Changes to your cycle at around the age of 50 are likely to be linked to the menopause. If you are younger than this then there may be other reasons, such as thyroid imbalance, nutritional deficiencies (maybe linked to poor digestion or bad diet), or stress
  • How stressed are you? Stress is a key factor in messing up hormone balance. Not only can stress cause symptoms that look like an early menopause, but when the menopause truly arrives, the stressed woman will have a rougher ride than her calmer sister. This is because the adrenal glands, which produce adrenalin in response to physical or emotional strain, are also in charge of producing hormones to prop up falling levels of oestrogen and progesterone. If your adrenals are busy coping with stress, they won’t have the resources to create these back-up hormones. Your menopause will be more dramatic and harder to handle
  • Are you having hot flushes and/or night sweats? These are the most common symptoms of the menopause, and their emergence around the late 40s or early 50s may well herald the start of the menopause, especially if accompanied by changes in the menstrual cycle. There are other reasons for flushes and sweats though, so consider these before declaring yourself menopausal: thyroid imbalance; food intolerances; chronic stress; dehydration; side effects of medication. This isn’t an exclusive list, so check with your doctor for other possible reasons
  • How many other symptoms do you have? If you have flushes and/or changes in your menstrual cycle along with several of these other symptoms, then it is more than likely that you are indeed entering the menopause: aches and pains; low libido; thinning hair; changes in skin condition; vaginal dryness; disturbed sleep patterns (often due to night sweats); fatigue; low mood; emotional fragility e.g. crying for no apparent reason; memory blank spots. Again, there can be other reasons for many of these symptoms, primarily thyroid imbalance and chronic stress, so don’t assume that they add up to the menopause unless you have most of them and your cycle is definitely awry.

More details on menopausal symptoms

The average age for experiencing the menopause is still 52, despite the media focusing on women experiencing earlier menopause. Don’t be fooled into dismissing your health issues as being part of the peri-menopause (the run up to the menopause) without very good evidence, because you may miss an important diagnosis of something else – see the alternative possibilities below.

These are genuine symptoms of the menopause:

Many of these, however, can be mistakenly blamed on the menopause when actually they are due to stress, wear and tear, and diverse other health issues that should be investigated:

  • Hot flushes can be due to food intolerances, stress, or thyroid imbalance
  • Changes in the pattern of your menstrual cycle can be due to stress, thyroid imbalance, or deficiencies such as anaemia (lack of iron)
  • Excessive anxiety can be due to a stressful lifestyle, caffeine intake, or sleep deprivation
  • Low libido can be due to stress and sleep deprivation (or the lack of an attractive partner!)
  • Cosmetic changes can be due to poor nutrition
  • Fatigue can be due to sleep deprivation
  • Joint pains can be due to an active lifestyle, wear and tear.

So don’t rush to a diagnosis of incipient menopause. Check for other factors first. Many women find that reducing their stress levels, eating a healthier diet, exercising lightly but regularly, and prioritising sleep will reduce or remove many of the above symptoms.

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